ABOUT 'BEST SPACE'

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BEST SPACE was founded in 2018, as an organisation to promote greater understanding, insight and particularly access to a wealth of knowledge to aid those in their professional and/or personal lives.

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Whether to aid with current or longterm stress, overcome frustration and disappointment of the past, to get through immediately destabilising situations, or to uncover and remove the things in our life limiting and holding us back from what we ultimately seek, this is a place/Space where knowledge and guidance is obtainable. 

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Much is spoken in society about 'mental health' and it carries a stigma to even talk about, yet we all sit on the spectrum of mental and emotional well being. Very few obtain an incredible inspired mental, physical and emotional well-being, totally free of the past that sees with it phenomenal success, harmony and real 'ease' and peace in life, regardless of conditions. 

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Yet the more we do to champion better understanding as to how mental and emotional well-being is either eroded or strengthened the better we all are in doing anything about it.  Hence this site.  

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As time and resource allows it is intended that the Founder's found insights, knowledge, and the brilliant published works of many inspired authors and associated research and resources to date are shared here (in as much as they can be from copyrite perspective, which are being worked upon to get as much in public domain as possible) for all to readily access. This represents 16+ years of reading, research, insight and study to a phenomenal degree, so sharing and synthesising and making this readily available (and easily usable/comprehensible) to individuals, organisations and business has commenced and is underway, and is likely to be a life long undertaking. Yet making it available and known as it can be is what this is all about.  Please return back to the "LEARN" pages for where content will end up.

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Here reading lists for personal learning will be added, as this is often where someones journey begins.

Often 'finding' a selected text, book or resource is never by accident. These resources find you when you are ready.

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If Best Space can be used to access or direct you to information, so you can learn either directly with us, or on your own, then it is succeeded.

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There is professional/paid assistance here for you if you wish to fast track your learning, need immediate assistance, or if needing assistance with overcoming any matters that elude you currently, even when phenomenal efforts by way of professional and/or self help have been endeavoured upon, yet overcoming such not yet realised.

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There is also an intention that this learning all need not be serious, and can and should also facilitate and engender a greater enjoyment, fun, satisfaction and access to opportunities in life, and operate to bring like minded persons together for these purposes, whether nearby or from across the globe.  

Either in the personal, family or social realms of life, or the realm of workplaces, recruitment, career and opportunity, as the Space grows there will be Events and Gatherings, great interaction, connections and enjoyment.

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Should you be aware of that which should be included in resources, insights or updates or modalities (or in e.g. medical research, western, eastern or ancient practices) about matters this site traverses, you are warmly encouraged and invited to get in contact with Melissa, and share that knowledge you know of that would benefit others, and see an even more comprehensive resource, understanding and network develop.

ABOUT THE FOUNDER

Founder and Principal Coach:

Melissa J. E. Laver

Clinical EFT Practitioner, BA, LLB, PGDip, PGDip(Bus), MSP, Prince2

Barrister and Solicitor of the High Court of New Zealand

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Originally qualified in Law and Business with a calling to serve others from a very young age, Melissa is also a Clinical EFT Practitioner with vast insight and knowledge into overcoming stress, understanding the mind and uncovering the limitations that often unknowingly bind us.  

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In her past Corporate life advising in strategy, business improvement, risk and project management she saw the largest inefficiencies, costs and ongoing leak losses arose out of poor communication, stress, frustration and loss of morale. Particularly when there was little ability to speak freely, or when there was lacking congruence in communication, (particularly survival stances), management styles and culture.

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This is how her focus shifted to aiding address of the real costs and implications of such stress not so much now for the organisation, but rather to the individual (and their family, loved ones and friends). In some cases these matters can lead to (yet avoidably) emotional stress and/or physical illness, the erosion of enjoyment of life (to various levels), and in the worst situations, strokes, heart attacks, suicide and depression/various mental illness. 

She has also returned to the Legal Profession and advises in Family Law matters, yet largely with a focus of getting her clients through in a better emotional and mental condition, exercising improved decision making, and enabling better traction and overall success when dealing with legal matters.  

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Where emotion and distress prevails this sees cases and costs drawn out beyond all reason, precarious outcomes in terms of fairness or justice reached, yet also often weaker parties continuing to be subject to the same behaviour, abuses or treatment as when they were still in their relationships (yet often with large legal bills to accompany such).  In these cases there is much to learn, yet as soonest as possible for everyones sake.

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She typically finds the issues that often come out during marriages are those never resolved earlier in life that may have shown signs, yet were never quite that profound, and never addressed.

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Related to this, in the realm of "dating stress", that she has a close affinity to bring about improvement on, again these unresolved matters of the past continue to present themselves time and time again, in many ways and in may forms. This making the "dating world" even more complex and difficult to navigate comfortably with ease and success.  Here people have their real and either heavy or hidden baggage (often caused by others own baggage an not simply their own) that they bring along (on all the dates) to then pile fresh baggage on top of.  Work can easily be done here to finally enable an actual clean start.

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This is where Melissa especially finds her work the most satisfying to aid a fresh turn-around from these repeat patterns, unresolved and often damaging encounters of the past (that remain active in the subconscious and bind us to those memories and others irrespective of time until resolved or cleaned or chords cut). Upon resolution those subconsciously deeply held 'ever triggered' negative feelings associated with the disappointments of the past, release their hold and drop away.  Life then can't help but bubble up in their place.

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"When things keep surfacing and there are repeat difficulties in life it means without question there is knowledge and insight for us to find that we are needing. This being the insight and knowledge you never learn at school, university or work, seldom at home, and sometimes never even learn from life experience. Hence you get either a short course, reasonable or comprehensive course here, saving a lifetime of trial and error, and endless or needless toil and loss.

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In short by arresting the impact the past has on us subconsciously we are able to shape vastly new paths and opportunities, with far greater peace (and pace).  And technique for doing so need not be traumatic nor difficult either, being a willing student is key however, and will hasten results". M Laver 

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Practices that have consistency with universal laws and those natural laws of science that "aid the subconscious mind to work harmoniously with the rest of the human body and the conscious mind", from both Western/research based science and from Ancient and Eastern practices form part of her practice, depending on what presents itself. 

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"As Western society becomes more complex, stressful, and the pace of change the fastest in mankind's history, its ability to find solutions appears as though it does not keep up such pace.

Yet upon closer inspection those answers and knowledge are in fact never far from us at all, even though it still may be fair to say our awareness of them over generations and millennia have been somewhat lost, forgotten, and in some cases being intentionally extinguished." 

TESTIMONIALS

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